A couple months ago I picked on the Christian guys with their side hugs and friend zones, but today I feel the need to pick on the Christian ladies, because apparently I'm nice? I came across this meme (what does meme mean anyway?) on Jon Acuff's Instagram and I couldn't stop laughing. I thought it was great that someone with a bigger following than me was calling out the ladies for this. I don't know how you feel about this or if you have used this line before but I absolutely hate it. I'm calling BS. (Is that appropriate? Probably not. Sorry Grandma) I just feel like this is such an easy way out for girls to get out of relationship without being truthful. I recently had to end things with someone who was not walking down the same path as me but instead you just have to bite the bullet and say what you really think is wrong in the relationship. It's also such a cliche that allows people to throw God under the bus to avoid an uncomfortable situation.
Guys have you ever been told this?
Ladies have you used this line before? If so, we should probably leave this as a rhetorical question for the sake of avoiding an awkward friendship.